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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/PMMePuppyDicks on 2023-06-25 20:54:59+00:00.

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So! I feel like one of us lacks perspective on this, so I am hoping y’all can help.

My parents are coming to visit us from another state for the 4th of July. I know this always causes my wife stress, just because she wants the house to be spotless when we have people over. Towards this end, we already have a cleaning service scheduled to come in a few days to help get things clean enough so she isn’t stressed out.

You should also know we have a new puppy and this thing is in the stage of putting everything in her mouth.

Now, normally we’re kind of a bit cluttered. We have people over all of the time and our most common solution to the clutter recently is throwing anything that is a little unsightly into one of our front rooms. We normally just keep the door shut and well, out of sight out of mind, right?

Anyway, one of the items in there has been an artificial Christmas tree. For a couple months we’ve talked about it a few times as something we need to take care of. It was always “we” need to take care of it. I know y’all don’t know my house, but it’s pretty difficult for a single person to get an object the size of an artificial tree into our attack.

Anyway, yesterday my wife and I go out to eat. Before we order my wife goes “can you just take care of that tree?” And I was like “sure, I will just need help getting it into the attic.” Anyway, after some of the slowest service on record it’s actually pretty late when we’re headed home so I end up telling her I am just going to have to handle the tree in the morning.

Well, morning comes around. My wife reminds me that I said I would do the tree and then tells me she is going to be outside handling some things.

So, I get up. Handle tree solo and clean up some dog mess, because of course.

Anyway, then my wife comes in in a bad mood and I am trying cheer her up, but I decide not to mention the tree… because, well, idk. It seemed like it would make her happier to find out later.

Anyway, she just asked me about it and I told her it was the first thing I did today, but she is mad. She says she would have been doing other things in there if I had said something. Maybe I was the asshole?