Hi ladies,

This will be my first entry on the arena of the fediverse ( I hope I’m right).

For those of you in long-term relationships, I’m curious to see your feedback about this topic. I’m an adult male and have been on more than 1 long-term relationship myself.

From my perspective and experience, I can only say I’m intrigued as to the main reasons a woman will avoid having sex with her partner other than being upset and/or being mistreated in the relationship. For me, open dialogue always helps understand each other.

Is it just a different way of pleasure, a fantasy a dildo can only bring without cheating on your partner?

In my case, I noticed it usually happens when we have an argument and she will rather use a toy than sex reconciliation (which, by the way, is the best sex imo).

I’m hoping this is an interesting topic for myself and others.

What ticks your belly? What and why you’d prefer a toy over your partner?