first of all, I really apreciate your comment is thematically consistent with your username. checks out!

it’s ok to be a man if it’s ok to be a woman.

I never said otherwise! gender and identity is fine, and people should live and express themselves however they feel the happiest with.

all you talk about is about dicks and vaginas

I am specifically not doing that. gender is not tied to sex. I think you really miss my point here. I think that men should be free of any gender expectation. People should be able to identify themselves without having to meet any expectations imposed by society.

as if one’s “gender” is ALL one’s personality

I quite literally advocate for the opposite - gender does not (intrinsically) mean anything for one’s personality.