I have seen in many US shows where they portray guys who are living with parents as losers, or there are jokes or memes about it, I never get it.

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    4 months ago

    It can be a bad thing for your parents if you are not contributing in any way. Humiliation doesn’t always help in promoting self-improvement but it is a social tool that establish social expectations. Producing value is expected in most societies. What changes is what value ought to be defined.

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      4 months ago

      Why is being economically disenfranchised corrolated to not producing value? I could understand an inverse corrolation however.

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        4 months ago

        That’s a different subject. Bringing the bacon is not excluded by what i said but contribution can take many different forms.

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          4 months ago

          Producing value is expected in most societies.

          How did you not connect producing value with ownership of property?

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              Art has value and needs to be produced. What is the conclusion you want to make about it with regards to ownership of property?

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                I’m not sure ownership of property was on the table. I was thinking more being dependent on parental support.

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                  You are right that you did not mention being a home owner anywhere, but the inability for people to be so is a very fair reason to want to be living at home. That young people cannot be financially independent is a problem made by the older generations. The same young people may be working and contributing at home, without having said economic freedom.