• Epilektoi_Hoplitai
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    Also known as stalkerware or spouseware, these kinds of phone monitoring apps are often planted by someone — such as spouses or domestic partners — with physical access to a person’s phone, without their consent or knowledge.

    Man. The fact that stalkerware is used so often on people’s domestic partners that they call it “spouseware” is pretty fuckin’ bleak.

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        The app is also specifically designed to stay hidden on a phone’s home screen, making it difficult to detect and remove. Also known as stalkerware or spouseware, these kinds of phone monitoring apps are often planted by someone — such as spouses or domestic partners — with physical access to a person’s phone, without their consent or knowledge

        Damn, you aren’t kidding. Also, people, just a little advice from an old man, if you feel the need to stalk/spy on your SO, just understand the relationship is already over and move one without doing this kind of shit.

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          As an old woman I agree. The idea that revenge or forcing someone to admit what you suspected will make you feel better in any way, shape or form is a waste of energy at best. At worst it’s stupid and myopic.

          Walking away from it is far more healthy and so much easier. Chalk it up to a learning experience.

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          The software itself is legal because it’s just software.

          Yes, but how is its use legal??

          Some places won’t even allow you to record a phone conversation that you are a part of, without the other person’s consent.

          But actually spying on a grown adult, so you can read all their text messages, social media posts, have access to their passwords, location, photos, etc… seems completely wrong.

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      I could only mildly understand using something like it on your small childs computer, but anything more than that is awful.