• Vampiric_Luma
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    9 months ago

    Do you truly know though? There have been countless cases of people performing sudden uncharacteristic and abhorent actions.

    I’d never have expected my father to rape his own daughter, but we exist in this timeline. It’s a fact.

    Luka Magnotta’s mother still has faith in her ‘version’ of Luke, but does she truly understand him or is she blinded by her emotions?

    What are you actually writing then? Who are you really writing about?

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      9 months ago

      I want you to know that I have typed out a response to you like 4 times. Every time it’s super long. This will be my attempt at condensing it.

      As someone that was sexually abused as a child. I fully agree that you never truly know someone. That’s why you write a letter that says “I trust in the courts decision that my friend is guilty, but I never knew that side of them, and they will be missed”. Obviously that’s condensed down, but I think you get the point. You can say I love this person without absolving them of responsibility.

      The reason I’m like this is because I was a heroin addict for years. All of my family, and most of my friends abandoned me. A select few friends and my partner came together and saved me. They gave me places to stay, and paid for and gave me rides to treatment.

      Now, I am opiate free. I have kids, and I’m still alive. Hell, my best childhood friend died of a heroin overdose, and I adopted his kid.

      My family abandoned me, but my friends didn’t.

      To paraphrase Bud from Kill Bill. “I don’t dodge guilt, and I always pay my comeuppance.”

      Anyway I’m falling asleep at the keyboard. So, I hope this all makes sense when you read it. I hope you have a good night.

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      9 months ago

      There are also countless cases of innocent people being convicted of crimes they didn’t commit. I’m not saying that happened here but it does happen.