• Dr. Bob
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    1 day ago

    It was like this with my first wife. We knew who we had met through, but there were a lot of interactions and nobody knew what the first one was. We did not make strong impressions on each other. 😄

    • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
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      oh, i make a strong impression, it’s just that precisely when was the first is hard to nail down. a lot was going on in both of our lives besides just that (she had three adult sisters in cancer treatment, also possibly one mother but she is one who does not take well to not being the center of attention so y’know, even wife was doubting it back then, and also she has father who was very gifted but stretched to his limit) the short version is that it was one of the worst years of either of us, just we somehow managed to start finding each other.

      first date? friday before father’s day. easy