Hi. So I (15F/M) have a sister ‘Cecilia’ (13F). Cecilia and our uncle have had a long history of arguing. Not only is our uncle racist, but he is also a bit transphobic to me in the past especially, and a misogynist who used to beat his ex-wife and current wife whenever he was angry, which he claimed was because of the medication he was on/alcohol, IDK.

One day, he tried to ask Cecilia to get him back with his ex-wife who already has a husband and a kid. However, Cecilia said no. He called her a traitor, she blocked him, and he told me to “tell Cecilia fuck you”.

Our grandma, however, the Mom of our uncle and dad, told Cecilia she should apologize and “admit her wrongdoing” so they could be a whole family again.

Is Cecilia TA for refusing to apologize and not forgiving our uncle?

My vote, but this is me: NTA.

  • CanacondaEnglish
    51·
    7 days ago

    NGL YTA with this comment. OP is a 15yo kid that can’t even drive.

    You’re literally shitting on a kid for protecting his little sister.

    • lohky@lemmy.worldEnglish
      15·
      7 days ago

      Nah, along with OP’s post history, this is tablet kid self-victimizing bullshit. OP has no supervision and is picking fights with the closest person they know they can get a rise out of.

      OP and the uncle deserve each other as two sides of the same coin.

      Also, I am figuratively shitting on them for their wild and inappropriate behavior, not literally.

      • CanacondaEnglish
        51·
        7 days ago

        Nah you’re just a loser bullying a teenager online.

        Not even an asshole. Just a loser.

        • lohky@lemmy.worldEnglish
          15·
          7 days ago

          ¯\(ツ)/¯

          Real world advice for a teenager that is able to communicate with strangers on the internet. OP seems to constantly put themselves in terrible, dangerous situations; Maybe they should try not doing that, this post included.

          • CanacondaEnglish
            4·
            7 days ago

            Honestly as a parent you should be ashamed of yourself. What a disgusting callous and ignorant attitude. Especially for a parent of a special needs child. I’m honestly astonished at the complete lack of sympathy and empathy on your part.

            OP and the uncle deserve each other as two sides of the same coin.

            You are way more like OPs uncle than they are.

            • lohky@lemmy.worldEnglish
              14·
              7 days ago

              I lack sympathy because I can tell the difference between attention seeking behaviour and actual mental health issues.

              This is attention seeking behavior. Nothing that OP is doing ever needed to happen and OP and their sister could have easily walked away from all of it. It sounds like the sister did the exact right thing in blocking the uncle and moving on.

              You’ve clearly read my post history. Do yourself a favor and read OP’s.

              • CanacondaEnglish
                3·
                7 days ago

                OP and their sister could have easily walked away from all of it.

                Yea well I’m sure you’ll see plenty of that once your kid wizens up to your antics.

                • lohky@lemmy.worldEnglish
                  13·
                  7 days ago

                  Lmao OP has a second account where the post a bunch about this uncle too. Weird shit, but by all means continue encouraging it.

                  • CanacondaEnglish
                    2·
                    7 days ago

                    Lmao OP has a second account where the post a bunch about this uncle too. Weird shit, but by all means continue encouraging it.

                    • lohky@lemmy.world

                    Ew bro get a hobby. quit stalking kids online