• krooklochurm
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    29 days ago

    Some of the most jealous people I’ve ever dated have been poly, the difference is they feel like they shouldn’t be so they’re in denial about it.call it other things.

    At least mono people will just say “I’m jealous”. Listening to another jealousy-adjacent complaint about some shit for the fifth time in a week is exhausting.

    This isn’t the case with all poly people obviously but every orientation has problems.

    • vrek@programming.devBanned from community
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      29 days ago

      Yup… Its not sexual orientation or gender related. I originally only meant that you should base your relationship on love, not hate. Don’t say “I’m X cause being Y would be horrible”, say “I’m X cause being X makes me happy”. If you are a transexual pan and poly relationship having person because it makes you happy and you feel joy great. On the other hand if you are a transexual only with the intent of having a reason to hate people who are not transexual that’s different. Make yourself happy by being yourself, making yourself happy by hating people means you suck as a person.

      Not picking on transexual people, hell the entire gop is basically the hating group and claim to be “cis hetero”