For example I as Central American man Really prefer to mostly watch JAV instead of American porn. Simply because I think it’s hot to see JAV actress like 早川瑞希(Mizuki Hayakawa) or 渋谷ひとみ (Hitomi Shibuya) humilate and degrade submissive men.

But when it comes to datingI prefer to date central American women most of the time because it’s alot easier for me to get along well with them simply because we share the same culture norms, the shame language and are more likely to have the same value as me too. I’m also not sexually submissive in real life.

  • 姫男子OPEnglish
    21·
    9 days ago

    If I met an Asian woman who has the same hobbies and interests as me then I would date her. But I don’t think that I will ever tell my future girlfriend that I have a humiliation kink because I’m scared she will judge me for it and tell all my friends and family that I’m into that.

    • CoffeeBreakfast@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      10·
      9 days ago

      Don’t bring it up on the first date, but if you find yourself in a long healthy relationship, it will likely be something you share and can enjoy together. Good luck

      • 姫男子OPEnglish
        3·
        9 days ago

        I guess if I find myself in a long healthy relationship. I should just embrace the fact that I’m a sexually submissive man. Instead of trying to suppress my sexual desires.

        • CoffeeBreakfast@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
          5·
          9 days ago

          I think really it’s something you need to make peace with, but it can be hard to do without some support. It takes a lot of energy to suppress feelings like that, if it’s something you really enjoy, you’d be hiding yourself from your partner and watching it behind their back etc. Just thinking about that scenario is exhausting, it’s filled with shame and guilt. Be yourself. Enjoy your life. Get humiliated by women who enjoy the pleasure you get from it

    • NudistWardrobe@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
      4·
      9 days ago

      There are LOTS of girls who especially want a submissive man. If you’re really into that, you might consider a dating site or group that specializes in kink.

      I know it sounds scary but kink groups are really super friendly in my experience. (I do shibari, but it applies to other kinks as well.) Most of the people there are just excited to meet someone else that’s into the same stuff as them.

    • GregorGizeh@lemmy.zipEnglish
      1·
      9 days ago

      Isn’t that exactly the point, lol

      You’re into humiliation, and would be getting humiliated

      • 姫男子OPEnglish
        2·
        9 days ago

        Yeah but that’s just to extreme. I only like having hot women step on me, spit on me, put me on a leash, lock me in chastity and I like being ordered to eat food that she step on and I like when she tells that I’m a pathetic beta male loser who only purpose in life is to serve her.

        I’m not into pegging, cuckolding, and public humiliation because that’s just to extreme for me.