i have heard this a lot with downright cruelty or bullying. i’ve talked to someone and they have said “they could just be having a bad day!!”

you may think you’re helping if you say this, but it doesn’t help in my opinion.

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    9 days ago

    I find the most straightforward response is, “would you do/say that when you’re having a bad day? Because I don’t think I would”