• usualsuspect191
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    4 days ago

    There’s a certain disarming when it’s from an old and harmless looking person; they aren’t a physical threat and it’s likely just a playful compliment with no intention to follow through. Because of this, it can go from creepy from a younger person, to cute/flattering from an older one. It’s all about the context

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      3 days ago

      The old ladies at the retirement home looked real innocent before they started grabbing my ass 20 years ago…not gonna lie the old British lady who would play with her pearl necklace after grabbing my ass was kinda adorable.