Say hypothetically I’ve already shot my shot and was shot down, how would I go about getting over this (without rebounding to other people or whatever)?

Edit: Thanks everyone, for all the comments, support, and advice! Majority rules a tie between time and distractions lol. Seriously though thanks y’all

  • Nomecks
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    1 month ago

    Realize that the person who rejected you is the wrong person, since why would you want someone who doesn’t want you? You really dodged a bullet there!

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      That’s how I always thought it. Even if I did get with them, I’d be with someone that doesn’t want me. How miserable for both of us.

      Then it’s time to go find someone like that person that does like me. Could be passing them every day and wouldn’t know if I’m still hung up on the impossible.