Worrying about the bodies and mental health of women in Sudan, Ukraine, DRC and Palestine ,
The body autonomy of women and trans kids being threatened around the world,
Stopping partnerships with problematic brands that are anti body autonomy and misogynistic
Recognizing her extreme privilege to have tattooed eyebrows, fake long blonde hair and procedures as upkeep (on top of two homes, $$$, white privilege) ,
Then maybe she’d stop caring about her vessel! Almost ALL of my friends bodies (who have had kids or not) look exactly like this at 40+. We are NOT out here focusing on our bodies, but we are actively calling out people like her who give us 40+ crowd a bad rep of being vapid consumers stuck in egotistical high school mentality. Also, my friends who work out, compete and train for things have super kickass physical bodies but they are OLDER! Nobody looks the same as they age. And maybe I just have a better family or friends who don’t talk about our bodies, and she’s stuck with an unsupportive spouse, family and friends who let her make this her “thing” but they really do need to tell her she’s fine, it’s a body, it’s nothing worth singling out, and that she could be more and know her worth without a focus on her vessel.
I think all your suggestions are amazing but Sarah is never going to take the time to learn about what’s going on in the world. She just isn’t interested in reality. I really think she’s incapable of thinking about anyone but herself.
To be frank, if she spent more time focused on :
Then maybe she’d stop caring about her vessel! Almost ALL of my friends bodies (who have had kids or not) look exactly like this at 40+. We are NOT out here focusing on our bodies, but we are actively calling out people like her who give us 40+ crowd a bad rep of being vapid consumers stuck in egotistical high school mentality. Also, my friends who work out, compete and train for things have super kickass physical bodies but they are OLDER! Nobody looks the same as they age. And maybe I just have a better family or friends who don’t talk about our bodies, and she’s stuck with an unsupportive spouse, family and friends who let her make this her “thing” but they really do need to tell her she’s fine, it’s a body, it’s nothing worth singling out, and that she could be more and know her worth without a focus on her vessel.
I think all your suggestions are amazing but Sarah is never going to take the time to learn about what’s going on in the world. She just isn’t interested in reality. I really think she’s incapable of thinking about anyone but herself.
So well said as per usual!
Exactly!
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