Example, video games being sort of “perfect” male pastime. Like think about how common it is to have a female lead who is wearing something a lot more provocative than what you’d see in the mall.
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Shower thought number two: this is also why psy (Gangnam style guy) is so popular in part, he got that Dad Bod and turns out people can relate.